前政務司司長唐英年昨天承認有婚外情,其實中外政壇中,有婚外情者並不少見,A說美國歷任總統中,被美國人民視二十世紀最偉大總統小羅斯福,被揭與第一夫人艾蓮娜秘書露西梅瑟有染;甘迺迪更不用說,除瑪麗蓮夢露外,盛傳與他有一手的,還有畫家瑪麗梅爾以及黑手黨首領情婦茱蒂絲艾斯納;至於克林頓與萊溫斯基的婚外情,更是記憶猶新,所以,A認為,政治人物有婚外情,未必會置他們於死地,反而是政治人物未能為婚外情醜聞好好拆彈、變成公關災難,才是令政治人物處於死地的關鍵。
唐英年昨天就親自示範,如何用最差公關手法,將一個政治危機,變成更大的政治危機。
坦白說,唐英年選擇自爆婚外情沒有錯,錯在他那半吊子的「拆彈」方式,既己透過周刊、聲明承認「個人感情上曾經有過缺失」,「我深感悔疚。我非常感激太太對我的諒解,並且原諒了我」,那,又何不大方面對傳媒鏡頭,為自己感情問題親自公開交代,回應傳媒提問,反而只說「我哋係冇嘢補充,對於過咗去嘅事,將來亦唔會再回應」,只留下一堆送給在場記者,充滿無奈和問號的蛋撻?正如B說,大家要的是唐英年親自答覆,而非「你請我食撻呀!」
當然,很多人會說,婚外情是私人問題,唐英年只需向太太交代,何需向一眾愚夫愚婦、八公八婆、耙糞傳媒交代?但童工昨晚與B談論這個問題,B卻認為,若唐英年連小小個人婚外情也處理得一團糟,他朝特區面對政治危機,又豈止於此?他,又是否有能力應付日後的政治危機?難度以後他每遇政治風波,也是如此避而不談,只懂說「我哋係冇嘢補充,對於過咗去嘅事,將來亦唔會再回應」?
婚外情醜聞,不會「殺死」唐英年,他沒有能力為婚外情醜聞拆彈,顯示他能力不濟,才是他「置死」的關鍵!
另,童工朋友C在他Facebook貼上當年澳門特首何厚鏵,如何主動自爆他有婚外情的醜聞,與唐英年比較,真的,相差一大段距離,高下立見:
「講到女人,我老婆,從小學時代與我一齊。我這個人如何,對感情負不負責任,她很清楚。你說結了婚這麼久,沒有做過一件兩件對不起太太的事﹖絕對有﹗她亦很清楚。講真一句,我不是說,講到自己好像耶穌一樣的聖人,但能夠有一個老婆這樣默默支持我,在背後理解我,縱然都做了一些她不開心的事,老實說,這些女人都很難得。」

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十月 6, 2011 at 7:18 pm
mcmak168
i think it is quite all right no matter in which way that mr, tong used to explain to the public about his romance, but one thing is very important that if that miss yuen is not involved in this case, mr. tong has the obligation to tell public to emphsize that miss yuen is a victim of this case and she has no connection with his affairs at all, because a lady’s reputation is rather important than anything else although it is the only guess of the media, being a superior of the former staff and in a way to show that he is a gentleman, he should protect his staf being misunderstood and do not let miss yuen to explain herself. mc
十月 9, 2011 at 7:49 pm
mcmak168
if a girl has benn sexually assaulted in the train,, it is only the girl who can prove that the alleged man is innocent by telling the police that he is not the one who had touched her or did any thing rude to her or otherwise no matter how the man explains and pleads not quity, it still remains a doubt about the truth whether this man is really the offender, therefore mr. tong should come out to say to the public that miss yuen is not and has not been involved in his romance affairs, Actually all people including male or female , they could only enjoy in planting the tree for the ex-marriage love,for a certain while, once the tree has grown up and produce with fruits, they are so reluctant to enjoy the fruits they planted, because the fruits are usually very bitter and troublesome, no good to eat at all but unfirtunately you have to eat them if you are a responsible person,i can say everyone has to pay a lot for their games and may be suffered from it the whole life and they are unable to talk about to others because it is all created by themselves, well, we do not have to find out somebody’s privacy because everybody has their own, you got your trouble i got mine, why you are so cruel to the unveil others greivences since mr. tong got the forgiveness and understanding from his dearest wife, the one who suffered the most. We all know that ex-marriage love is a fault to our family but unfortunately the love just happened after married, they are responsible people or otherwise they can divorce with is wife or husband to build up a new love, they may be care about their children or may be still love his or her partner but only very unlucky that we are human beings that sometims we lost control due to many reasons they others can never understand, but being a gentleman, i suggest mr. tong to clear this matter bravely to the public and media that there is nothing concern with miss yuen in this event unless he has some hidden difficulties that we do not know, if a man can not even be considerated for one who wored for him before, how can he take care the whole hong kong citizens’ benefits if he is selected as the chief admisnstrator for hong kong, as the chinese saying goes, if one who can not manage a room, how can he manage the whole country 一室之不冶,何以天下囯家為, if mr. tong is unable to solve a small matter, i just can not imagine when he meets a bigger problem and the problems will face him everydAY INFUTURE IF HE WILL BE SELECTED, please convery this message to mr. tong, may be it is very helpful for his predicament and gain back many suppoets from the citizens. mcmak168 good luck to him
十月 9, 2011 at 7:58 pm
Mc Mak
there might be some spelling mistakes in the above comment, i am sorry that i did not check it before posting it.